IN SEARCH OF : Friends, real ones

Almost 30 year old parents looking for other parents willing to let their/our kids destroy their house while we attempt to watch a ball game and stuff our faces. No worries, we'll let your kids destroy our house too.

Dad enjoys playing with electricity, building stuff, and shooting guns.

Mom enjoys singing Brittney Spears songs to the top of her lungs, wrangling children, and threatening their lives before we go in public.

2 children under 5

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Why is it almost unheard of for people to have face to face friends? Has social media taken away the place of having real relationships?

We literally only see the people we work with and attend church with. It has been that way for a long time.

People don't have friends or acquaintances anymore. My oldest child is 5 and I honestly can't remember the last time we've done something with "friends." We may run into the occasional old friend at the park and not speak again until we run into each other again, but no true friends. We don't make weekend plans to take our rowdy children to the trampoline park and Chick Fil A afterwards, or meet the mom and kids when we have a day out of school.

Is this what life is like when you get close to 30 or is this exactly what I think it is?

Social media has enabled us to hide behind a screen and think because we have thousands of friends on our friends list that we really have friends.

I'd love to hear your comments.

Comments

  1. Leeanne PierceFebruary 27, 2019 at 6:41 AM

    I don’t think this is just for those with kids. I am in the 30-something group and the last time I did something outside of church with friends was probably around Thanksgiving. I do wonder if it has to do with all the social media we have. I can keep up with people I haven’t seen in 10 years and feel like I am a part of their lives. Well I am willing to apply for friendship. No kids yet but your kids are welcome to come destroy our house...once we finish building! And if they want to go swing from the trees we can hook them up with that as well! ��

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